Dogging: Seeing and to be seen during sex

Dogging: Seeing and to be seen during sex

November 11, 2019

Outdoor sex simply means sex in public spaces. That can be a couple secretly sitting on the beach having sex, to a complete gangbang with dozens of spectators. The first form of outdoor sex comes from the gay world, where it is also called "dogging" or "cruising". These were gays who went looking for anonymous sex with other men at night in parks, parking lots or remote bushes. At the same time, there were many teenagers in the US who had their first experiences in cars in drive-in cinemas. So it was all about secret sex outside the home.

Nowadays, the concept of outdoor sex includes much more and it is also more often about the tension of seeing and being seen. So it has got an exhibitionistic and voyeuristic side. Outdoor sex is a way of sex when one cannot receive or meet at home. Furthermore, it is also for a certain group of people who find it extra exciting to have sex in the open air.

Outside sex actually includes sexual acts in public places. You can think of the train, the park, the beach, in the car, on a boat, in or near a public swimming pool or in a forest for example. It is therefore very common.

Everyone can do outdoor sex, whether you are gay, straight, bisexual, single or (part of) a couple. It occurs in all modes, layers of the population, social status, cultural backgrounds and sexual preferences. It used to be a secret way for gays to meet each other or American teenagers who did it secretly in cars, now it is a whole subculture with their own codes, means of communication and jargon.

It is still difficult to just go to a place and see who you meet. When you search the internet, it is fairly easy to find out what is being done in your neighborhood about outdoor sex. You are completely anonymous and you do not have to disclose any personal information. But nowadays there are also countless websites where people arrange dates for outdoor sex. This is safer than just going out, after all, you can test each other out with a chat and a few photos before you actually have a date or start with a date. 

While outdoor sex was initially intended for secret sex, now it is much more than before, it is a game of watching and being watched in public places, whether it is with your partner, a completely stranger, or with several people you may or may not know. Many people find it extremely exciting to be watched during sex. On the other hand you have voyeurs, who prefer to watch and get horny. Outdoor sex therefore no longer only takes place in a dark park, but also in public places where you can be seen, such as a nudist beach or in a car, in industrial areas and parking areas, or in the cinema. Some people even invite the public when they go outside to have sex, via text or the internet.

Visit 121 Dogging

Write a reply

I agree to the Terms of Service